Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
People should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy.
Give reasons and specific examples to support your answer.
(300 words)
I agree on the fact people should sometimes do thing that they do not enjoy, if you ask why I am going to give some examples about my personal point of view. First, we live in a world where we need to follow rules and respect other’s policies or ways of living. There are a lot of people in the world that think different to us, so we must value someone else’s opinion or actions even if we dislike their interventions, and this is one of some things human do not accept to do but they have to: respect differences. In addition to that, we also work or study in places where we do not feel comfortable at all because of any reason and we have to be there due to it is convenient, near our houses or attractive for our interests. So that, we keep doing things we disagree or we do not like at all but we are forced to do. Furthermore, I can mention a list of activities that people dislike to do and they have to continue doing them as staying late in their jobs because of heavy work, studying a lot for the reason that they need better salaries and in a way this benefits their budget, paying taxes that seem to be kind of silly for citizens and maybe some others that you can come up and perhaps you have not thought about them. To sum up, people do not precisely live in happy land but at least they have to try to live with this aspects about life that are part of it and necessary in the system we live, to mention: respect rules, accept and handle work the better we can and do some more things that we are not very happy with but are a must in our lives such as keep studying for the future or paying taxes.
In part I agree that people should do things that they do not enjoy, but sometimes I disagree. There are a few reasons why, so I will explain some of them. First of all I will explain why I am agree. A very important one is because sometimes the things in life are not what we expect so we instead of going away from things we don´t like, we have to affront them or face them so we could continue with our life. In the same way is that we need to learn to make them even if we don’t like it. For example, if you are in you work and the chief ask you to do something, you cannot tell him that you will not do it because it will decrease your performance with him. On the other hand when people are about to do something they do not enjoy, they do it with no feeling, so the things that are done by bad manner the most of the time are wrong and other people or the same have to do it over and over again. Finally I think that even if we do not like to do things we have to do them because somehow you could learn something new or help someone that have a lot of work. For example, if your mom asks you to help her with the laundry and you do not enjoy doing it, you are like “forced” to do it so you go to wash the clothes and they are still dirty and your mom gets angry and ask you to do it again, so you are working double. That is one of the reasons you should learn how to do things without enjoying them because then you have to do the work twice so learn how to do the things you does not enjoy and live happy.
In my opinion people should not do things that they do not enjoy, because if they do not enjoy it, there should be a reason. Otherwise they might already did it. For example, if the person does not enjoy eating chilli, then there is no reason to eat it. But if there is a good reason to do things that you do not enjoy, like trying to do new things or facing your fears the person should try to do it. In other words, if the person does not like watching movies, going out with people or practicing a sport; he/she should try doing this things instead of stay at home watching tv. There are also other times when you do not have choise and you have to do things that you do not enjoy, an example is that when you have to work, maybe you do not get the job of your dreams but you have to work in a different job, in order to be able to pay your bills and buy some food, otherwise you would not be able to have money enough to survive. In other words, there are times when you do not have any choise, but if you are able to choose, do not do things that you do not enjoy, because if you do them you could get angry with yourself in a future, or you could also hate your life and you could think that all your life is boring. On the other hand, if your goal is to deal with a fear, then you should keep doing things that you do not enojoy, then you will be able to be better in other things. In sum, if you have a good reason to do things that you do not enjoy, go ahead; but if you do not, do not even think about it. Humberto
I agreed with this about people should sometimes do something that they do not realy enjoy for some particular reasons.
The first one is because there are people who may not like the same things that you do enjoy, the second one shall be if you only do activities that you like,then people that are not similar as you are could do the same as you do not participate on what they like ,also people could get angry if they participate on activities with you but you do not participate on what they enjoy.
On my first reason I reffer to people who not like the same things that you, lets pretend that there is a concert on the city of your favorite group band so that you want to invite some of your friends to enjoy the kind of music that you sympathyse with moreover you offer them to pay the entrance next you go and everybody have fun, after that they asked you to go with them to another concert but instead of being your favorite rock band there is a pop band that you do not realy like so you tell your friends that you just do not enjoy that kind of music and you are not going with them, first they will get upsad about you not going because they went with you to see your band and instead of going you preffer to go to your house and just play the guittar let them by themselves do not believeme but you could get probably without any friend.
The second reason is if you only do the activities that you enjoy could get you in a circunstance thatyou could just have friends of moments with this I am trying to mean that only the friend that like the things you are going to do will go all the others will get appart of what are your plans for the simple reason that you do not will do the other activities they like because you may not go with them, so it will let you with just few friends or even none invitations of going out of course, in other words it is just not recommendable to do this with the partners or friends.
In conclusion I believe this: you should do some activities that you do not realy like because is a part of being friend of someone if you do what they like they will do the same with you.
Sometime people do things that they do not enjoy, however they need do for different reasons, like a job, necessity also present the opportunity. But it is not means that they feel happy. Well, I explain the first reason for the people do this. For example the job, when they worked in a place that didn’t like but person had a reason for continued in that place. Another example is housework, the teenagers hate do this activity. In spite of this they need do this. The second reason is the necessity. This point is part of the first one. Moreover, both pass at the same time, in other words, together is the main reason why the people do things that they do not enjoy also hate. Otherwise, they need to enjoy their activity. In this moment they can think positive things and the benefits that as result of the activity. Other solution about this problem, can be that they searching other activities for example searching a new job, new hobby. Of course, the new activity need give them the same benefits like the last. All results depend of the attitude of the person. In brief, they need enjoy all activities because is a part of their life.
Sometimes people have to do things that they do not really enjoy or not complety.
For example some of them dislike help with the housework because they do not clean the kitchen, wash the dishes, clean the toliet or take out the garbage.
I do not like to wash the dishes but I ought to.
Another thing that part of the society thinks that is annoying, happens in their job. That is when the boss demands you to develop an activity that you do not know perfectly or you think that is a humiliation. So breath always will be a person who tells you what you are going to do and how you have to do it. Also when people complain a lot about their job is because they took a bad decision.
The most of the children hate math is common to hear kids complaining about this.
Actually, at the University I know some parters that study law just because a relative or their parents are lawyers or because that career was their unique option.
In conclusion in all the life will be things that you do not want to, but all is about attitude, just do the better that you can and enjoy it.
I agree with that statment because there is a lot of things we have to do as humans if we want to improve or to get something important in life.Maybe it could sounds weird and possibly because that is not part of our nature, personality or rutine . For instance, i hate washing dishes but i have to do it because if not, i will have problems whith my parents. Another example is when you are listening a speech in a lecture might be you get bored, but meanwhile the time pass, you are not thinking about that is going to be useful in a future. There are a few things i believe we have to do even though if we do not want, like when you were a teenager and wanted to go to a party and she did not let you, even though you were not agree with her, you had to be obedient. On another hand, part of our nature ar the basic things we do always, an exmaple can be to eat, to sleep and another things, but imagine that you are sick and you are not allowed to do all these actions and you have to wait a lot of time to do them. What I think is that you must rest even if you do not want, because problably is going to make a huge difference when you get a better health. Everybody dream with to do all the things we have ever though since we were kids, but in fact, this is another strong point of this statement, the life is not going to be what we are expecting if we do not make sacrifices and stuff like that.So, believe it or not, is great when you find or feel that you are doing something that you do not like and the a few years later, you did not expect that you found the hapiness in the moment you were not prepare. Nowadays, i think that the main idea of i was explaining is that sometimes, not always we have to do things that we do not love or we will not enjoy, but, is better to dot instead of be sad the rest of your life as a result of taking risks.
I think that everything is depending of the situation, people should not do things that they do not enjoy because they would suffer because of that; it is against his or her volunteer moreover it is like treat them like slaves; another reason is that we would not like to do something which is not from our pleasure.
To force people to do something, or to made them do it, it is not food because I believe this, all of us are free to do what we want, but not to break the laws, just to do or no to do what we want to illustrate when someone told you “Go and steal that woman because I said”, I think that is bad, but there are some other things like when you are a child and your parents ordered you to do some household chores, in that way I think there is no problem . But we need to respect the wishes of every person who has the ability to choose the good and bad.
In addition another view of point I have is when the parents obligated to their child to study, to work and to live doing something she or he does not like, that is really bad. Because that person is not going to work in something that is from her or his enjoyment, it is like ruin all the life and plans for that person
We need to put ourselves in the same position that person, because if we were them. Would you like us to do something we do not enjoy? Are we going to be good in that case? And if that happened to us, we studied or we did something against our wishes, we know how is that feeling so, why do we do the same with other people?
In conclusion it is better if we respect other decisions, we give them the opportunity to do what they want and if it is good to help them to reach their goals.
In brief, I very disagree when people should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy because they are not happy doing these things and it is not good for the person. Furthermore, they can do the things badly and there is not the point, and because the people can react with a bad attitude with the other people. When a person is doing things without enjoying them they can have many health problems because they can be stressed and it is the cause of many illnesses. How the people are not enjoying the things that they are doing they can have mistakes and do the things badly, for that reason the people should be enjoying it. For instance, when I was in jazz, I was dancing very badly because I really do not like dancing and for that reason I remember that I had many mistakes when I was dancing but my mom wanted I was dancing because she liked it. Finally, I thing that the people when is doing something that is not good for them, they can react very badly with the person that give them that thing to do. For example, I remember that four years ago, my mom said to me “Erika, I need that you go to the store for tortillas”, I had to go but when I got home, my mom said to me something and I react very angry. It happened because I did not enjoy going to the store. In conclusion, we need to know if we want to do something before going it because if we do not thing before, we cannot be happy, we can do the things in a bad way and we can have a change with ourselves and at the time hurting others.
I agree with this statement, during our life we have to do things that don't like. For example in my childhood I did not like eating vegetables but I needed it. Sometimes we need to do this for an important reason. Another example is when a man is searching a work and doesn't find, in his house, his family need eat clothes, pay the water, pay the light, etc; so the first person that offers him a job, he takes it. In other words for this reason a lot of people that graduated of any career, and don't find work, they begin to work like waiters, cashier,etc.; they don't like work in this but is necessary because his or her family need the money. Not all in the life is easy, for that is you have to do the things that you like enjoy, because not always is so. Not all in the life is easy; sometimes you could do things that you don't agree. But is very important make this with the better way, which is making your better smile. Not feel angry or sad because you don't like, you need to understand that the situation is temporary and as result get on better position your job or in your life.
SAMY TOVAR
ResponderEliminarI agree on the fact people should sometimes do thing that they do not enjoy, if you ask why I am going to give some examples about my personal point of view.
First, we live in a world where we need to follow rules and respect other’s policies or ways of living. There are a lot of people in the world that think different to us, so we must value someone else’s opinion or actions even if we dislike their interventions, and this is one of some things human do not accept to do but they have to: respect differences.
In addition to that, we also work or study in places where we do not feel comfortable at all because of any reason and we have to be there due to it is convenient, near our houses or attractive for our interests. So that, we keep doing things we disagree or we do not like at all but we are forced to do.
Furthermore, I can mention a list of activities that people dislike to do and they have to continue doing them as staying late in their jobs because of heavy work, studying a lot for the reason that they need better salaries and in a way this benefits their budget, paying taxes that seem to be kind of silly for citizens and maybe some others that you can come up and perhaps you have not thought about them.
To sum up, people do not precisely live in happy land but at least they have to try to live with this aspects about life that are part of it and necessary in the system we live, to mention: respect rules, accept and handle work the better we can and do some more things that we are not very happy with but are a must in our lives such as keep studying for the future or paying taxes.
In part I agree that people should do things that they do not enjoy, but sometimes I disagree. There are a few reasons why, so I will explain some of them.
ResponderEliminarFirst of all I will explain why I am agree.
A very important one is because sometimes the things in life are not what we expect so we instead of going away from things we don´t like, we have to affront them or face them so we could continue with our life.
In the same way is that we need to learn to make them even if we don’t like it. For example, if you are in you work and the chief ask you to do something, you cannot tell him that you will not do it because it will decrease your performance with him.
On the other hand when people are about to do something they do not enjoy, they do it with no feeling, so the things that are done by bad manner the most of the time are wrong and other people or the same have to do it over and over again.
Finally I think that even if we do not like to do things we have to do them because somehow you could learn something new or help someone that have a lot of work. For example, if your mom asks you to help her with the laundry and you do not enjoy doing it, you are like “forced” to do it so you go to wash the clothes and they are still dirty and your mom gets angry and ask you to do it again, so you are working double.
That is one of the reasons you should learn how to do things without enjoying them because then you have to do the work twice so learn how to do the things you does not enjoy and live happy.
In my opinion people should not do things that they do not enjoy, because if they do not enjoy it, there should be a reason. Otherwise they might already did it. For example, if the person does not enjoy eating chilli, then there is no reason to eat it.
ResponderEliminarBut if there is a good reason to do things that you do not enjoy, like trying to do new things or facing your fears the person should try to do it. In other words, if the person does not like watching movies, going out with people or practicing a sport; he/she should try doing this things instead of stay at home watching tv.
There are also other times when you do not have choise and you have to do things that you do not enjoy, an example is that when you have to work, maybe you do not get the job of your dreams but you have to work in a different job, in order to be able to pay your bills and buy some food, otherwise you would not be able to have money enough to survive.
In other words, there are times when you do not have any choise, but if you are able to choose, do not do things that you do not enjoy, because if you do them you could get angry with yourself in a future, or you could also hate your life and you could think that all your life is boring. On the other hand, if your goal is to deal with a fear, then you should keep doing things that you do not enojoy, then you will be able to be better in other things.
In sum, if you have a good reason to do things that you do not enjoy, go ahead; but if you do not, do not even think about it.
Humberto
I agreed with this about people should sometimes do something that they do not realy enjoy for some particular reasons.
ResponderEliminarThe first one is because there are people who may not like the same things that you do enjoy, the second one shall be if you only do activities that you
like,then people that are not similar as you are could do the same as you do not participate on what they like ,also people could get angry if they
participate on activities with you but you do not participate on what they enjoy.
On my first reason I reffer to people who not like the same things that you, lets pretend that there is a concert on the city of your favorite group band
so that you want to invite some of your friends to enjoy the kind of music that you sympathyse with moreover you offer them to pay the entrance
next you go and everybody have fun, after that they asked you to go with them to another concert but instead of being your favorite rock band there is a
pop band that you do not realy like so you tell your friends that you just do not enjoy that kind of music and you are not going with them, first they
will get upsad about you not going because they went with you to see your band and instead of going you preffer to go to your house and just play the guittar
let them by themselves do not believeme but you could get probably without any friend.
The second reason is if you only do the activities that you enjoy could get you in a circunstance thatyou could just have friends of moments with this I am
trying to mean that only the friend that like the things you are going to do will go all the others will get appart of what are your plans for the simple
reason that you do not will do the other activities they like because you may not go with them, so it will let you with just few friends or even none
invitations of going out of course, in other words it is just not recommendable to do this with the partners or friends.
In conclusion I believe this: you should do some activities that you do not realy like because is a part of being friend of someone if you do what they like
they will do the same with you.
Miguel Rodriguez
Dalia Gandara
ResponderEliminarSometime people do things that they do not enjoy, however they need do for different reasons, like a job, necessity also present the opportunity. But it is not means that they feel happy.
Well, I explain the first reason for the people do this. For example the job, when they worked in a place that didn’t like but person had a reason for continued in that place. Another example is housework, the teenagers hate do this activity. In spite of this they need do this.
The second reason is the necessity. This point is part of the first one. Moreover, both pass at the same time, in other words, together is the main reason why the people do things that they do not enjoy also hate.
Otherwise, they need to enjoy their activity. In this moment they can think positive things and the benefits that as result of the activity. Other solution about this problem, can be that they searching other activities for example searching a new job, new hobby.
Of course, the new activity need give them the same benefits like the last. All results depend of the attitude of the person.
In brief, they need enjoy all activities because is a part of their life.
Sometimes people have to do things that they do not really enjoy or not complety.
ResponderEliminarFor example some of them dislike help with the housework because they do not clean the kitchen, wash the dishes, clean the toliet or take out the garbage.
I do not like to wash the dishes but I ought to.
Another thing that part of the society thinks that is annoying, happens in their job. That is when the boss demands you to develop an activity that you do not know perfectly or you think that is a humiliation. So breath always will be a person who tells you what you are going to do and how you have to do it. Also when people complain a lot about their job is because they took a bad decision.
The most of the children hate math is common to hear kids complaining about this.
Actually, at the University I know some parters that study law just because a relative or their parents are lawyers or because that career was their unique option.
In conclusion in all the life will be things that you do not want to, but all is about attitude, just do the better that you can and enjoy it.
Laura Chavez.
WALTER ORLANDO RODRIGUEZ GOMEZ.
ResponderEliminarI agree with that statment because there is a lot of things we have to do as humans if we want to improve or to get something important in life.Maybe it could sounds weird and possibly because that is not part of our nature, personality or rutine . For instance, i hate washing dishes but i have to do it because if not, i will have problems whith my parents.
Another example is when you are listening a speech in a lecture might be you get bored, but meanwhile the time pass, you are not thinking about that is going to be useful in a future.
There are a few things i believe we have to do even though if we do not want, like when you were a teenager and wanted to go to a party and she did not let you, even though you were not agree with her, you had to be obedient.
On another hand, part of our nature ar the basic things we do always, an exmaple can be to eat, to sleep and another things, but imagine that you are sick and you are not allowed to do all these actions and you have to wait a lot of time to do them. What I think is that you must rest even if you do not want, because problably is going to make a huge difference when you get a better health.
Everybody dream with to do all the things we have ever though since we were kids, but in fact, this is another strong point of this statement, the life is not going to be what we are expecting if we do not make sacrifices and stuff like that.So, believe it or not, is great when you find or feel that you are doing something that you do not like and the a few years later, you did not expect that you found the hapiness in the moment you were not prepare.
Nowadays, i think that the main idea of i was explaining is that sometimes, not always we have to do things that we do not love or we will not enjoy, but, is better to dot instead of be sad the rest of your life as a result of taking risks.
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ResponderEliminarI think that everything is depending of the situation, people should not do things that they do not enjoy because they would suffer because of that; it is against his or her volunteer moreover it is like treat them like slaves; another reason is that we would not like to do something which is not from our pleasure.
ResponderEliminarTo force people to do something, or to made them do it, it is not food because I believe this, all of us are free to do what we want, but not to break the laws, just to do or no to do what we want to illustrate when someone told you “Go and steal that woman because I said”, I think that is bad, but there are some other things like when you are a child and your parents ordered you to do some household chores, in that way I think there is no problem . But we need to respect the wishes of every person who has the ability to choose the good and bad.
In addition another view of point I have is when the parents obligated to their child to study, to work and to live doing something she or he does not like, that is really bad. Because that person is not going to work in something that is from her or his enjoyment, it is like ruin all the life and plans for that person
We need to put ourselves in the same position that person, because if we were them. Would you like us to do something we do not enjoy? Are we going to be good in that case? And if that happened to us, we studied or we did something against our wishes, we know how is that feeling so, why do we do the same with other people?
In conclusion it is better if we respect other decisions, we give them the opportunity to do what they want and if it is good to help them to reach their goals.
Carlos Ornelas.
In brief, I very disagree when people should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy because they are not happy doing these things and it is not good for the person. Furthermore, they can do the things badly and there is not the point, and because the people can react with a bad attitude with the other people.
ResponderEliminarWhen a person is doing things without enjoying them they can have many health problems because they can be stressed and it is the cause of many illnesses.
How the people are not enjoying the things that they are doing they can have mistakes and do the things badly, for that reason the people should be enjoying it.
For instance, when I was in jazz, I was dancing very badly because I really do not like dancing and for that reason I remember that I had many mistakes when I was dancing but my mom wanted I was dancing because she liked it.
Finally, I thing that the people when is doing something that is not good for them, they can react very badly with the person that give them that thing to do.
For example, I remember that four years ago, my mom said to me “Erika, I need that you go to the store for tortillas”, I had to go but when I got home, my mom said to me something and I react very angry. It happened because I did not enjoy going to the store.
In conclusion, we need to know if we want to do something before going it because if we do not thing before, we cannot be happy, we can do the things in a bad way and we can have a change with ourselves and at the time hurting others.
Erika Liliana Cadena Torres.
I agree with this statement, during our life we have to do things that don't like. For example in my childhood I did not like eating vegetables but I needed it. Sometimes we need to do this for an important reason. Another example is when a man is searching a work and doesn't find, in his house, his family need eat clothes, pay the water, pay the light, etc; so the first person that offers him a job, he takes it.
ResponderEliminarIn other words for this reason a lot of people that graduated of any career, and don't find work, they begin to work like waiters, cashier,etc.; they don't like work in this but is necessary because his or her family need the money.
Not all in the life is easy, for that is you have to do the things that you like enjoy, because not always is so.
Not all in the life is easy; sometimes you could do things that you don't agree. But is very important make this with the better way, which is making your better smile. Not feel angry or sad because you don't like, you need to understand that the situation is temporary and as result get on better position your job or in your life.
Sandra Castro Garcia